Category Archives: 4. Relationship Therapy
When a flower doesn’t bloom …
Have you bloomed? Are you blooming? If you have children – are they blooming? What I love about this quote is that it applies to so many situations while at Continue Reading →
My Christmas Gift to You (I really hope you like it)
Choosing a gift for you is difficult – mainly because I don’t know you that well. But I’m hoping that if you are following me on my blogsite you will Continue Reading →
Dating in a modern world – reverse engineering dating sites
I love TED talks – Youtube for thinking people I call it. If you are looking for a partner or know someone who is, you will find this witty TED Continue Reading →
Love and Great Sex are NOT Natural Bedmates
This talks is perhaps the best elaboration I have come across of this eternal issue that plagues so many couples I work with. It is a TED talk by New Continue Reading →
Did he live with passion?
The Greeks, when someone died, asked one question: Did he live with passion? This week just passed, I attended the funeral of a close friend of more than 30 years Continue Reading →
The Strength of a Man
I recently had a wise man graduate from group therapy. He was always wise. All I did was remind him of who he was. In his final notes (a part of Continue Reading →
Nurturing the Soul, Not the Feelings
I recently had a fascinating session with one of my particularly capable and articulate patients last week. She has been in therapy with me for a couple of years over Continue Reading →
A Crash Course in Relationship Therapy for Partners & Parents
Following on from my last post on love languages let me take this subject further and introduce one of my favourite experts in this space. When it comes to having Continue Reading →
The importance of getting lazy in loving – Love Languages 101
When wanting to introduce new efficiencies on his production line, Henry Ford apparently would have the laziest man in that section brought to him to implement the new measure. When Continue Reading →
What is a true friend? Someone with whom you can dare to be yourself
What is it that makes a true friend? This is a question that has been on my mind for many years. Indeed, my wife and I chose a reading at Continue Reading →