Thank you Andrew Matthews for sharing this brilliant short video – such a common problem for men and women in discussion. I remember my dear mate John, many years ago, Continue Reading →

It took a while to be edited and published but, finally here it is. It’s about how romantic love, and its false promises, can actually increase the risk of divorce. Continue Reading →

My recent piece from Channel 7 on conflict in relationships:

Must have been a slow news week! QWeekend made our book, How to make the biggest decision of your life, the subject of the editorial and the cover story! Pleased Continue Reading →

Wow! 3.2 million views since my talk was picked up by the head office of TED & re-published on the TED parent site in 2019. I am stunned & grateful Continue Reading →

We human beings are built to worry about what others think of us. This can hold us back from doing what we need to do, from challenging ourselves, from growing. Continue Reading →

A friend of mine bought his wife a bobcat for her birthday. Yes, those things you see on building sites that look like a miniature bulldozer. True story. Had she Continue Reading →

[The following is a reprint of an article I wrote for the Brisbane Circle magazine as requested by some of you who do not receive it.] Most relationships go through Continue Reading →